donna's blog

The best work starts with a simple assumption: young men are not a problem to solve. They are people to understand. Effective support respects their autonomy, takes their concerns seriously, and offers clear ways forward without shame. Trust often grows when the setting feels calm and human. Start with trust before trying to create change Many young men have learned to be cautious about vulnerability. That does not mean they refuse help. It may mean they test whether help is

Understanding the Depth of Grief What can you possibly learn in school to prepare you for this level of trauma, shock, sadness, and grief? In my suicide bereavement group, the atmosphere is raw. Participants allow for individual and collective pain points, softening and comforting each other. They engage as if it were a group no one would ever want to join. Because, in truth, it is. I bear witness, gently guiding and holding space for them. I manage the monopolizers and the r

Poppy In my work with clients, I've often encountered a deep sense of cynicism. Why wouldn't they feel this way? They were born into a world forever changed by events like 9/11. My daughter, born in 2001, missed much of her college experience due to COVID-19. Now, she faces a daunting job market and overwhelming debt in a world that feels increasingly flat and uncertain. Understanding Their World How can I help them make sense of it all? I often find myself wishing I could te