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What Does it Take to Work with Suicide?
That's where the light comes in... What can you possibly learn in school to prepare you for this level trauma, shock sadness and grief? In my suicide bereavement group it is raw. Then, allowing for the individual and collective pain points, they soften and comfort each other. They participate as if it was a group no one would ever be a member of. Because it is. I am bearing witness, gently guiding, holding space. I manage the monopolizers and the retreaters. This is ho
4 days ago2 min read


Understanding the Symbolism Behind Dreams of Falling
Dreams of falling are among the most common and vivid experiences people report. They often leave a lingering sense of unease or confusion upon waking. What do these dreams really mean? Are they just random brain activity, or do they carry deeper messages about our waking lives? Exploring the symbolism behind dreams of falling can reveal insights into our emotions, fears, and personal challenges. What Falling Dreams Typically Represent Falling in a dream often reflects feelin
Apr 203 min read


SAD - Seasonal. Any. Day.
local track - hastings-on-hudson, ny When the darkness starts coming around mid-November and the clocks turn back, many people call me - in fact - the most people call me of all the times of the year! (However, I have read it can happen in ANY season!!). As the Solstice approaches we all have to turn inward a while. It's not a punishment, as my dear Dad would say. I happen to be one of those rare individuals who is BOTH an introvert and an extrovert. I love to be around p
Nov 24, 20252 min read


It's that Seasonal Thing Again
I've been writing articles on SAD - seasonal depression/affective disorder for more than 25 years. There's not much new to say about it, but there are plenty of more reasons to be SAD. I am working with a lot of teens and young adults right now who are acting out and getting into trouble and doing risky things, which are all normal to adolescent development. What is not normal is running your parents into the ground. In other words, young people move around the world witho
Nov 7, 20252 min read


Valentine's Day & Secure Attachment
(**ALL PHOTOS TAKEN BY DONNA C. MOSS unless otherwise labeled) Happy Valentine's Day 2025 - the year that reminds us of 1984. If you...
Feb 15, 20253 min read


Triangulation - Why is 3 So Hard?
In therapy 3's are dangerous. The potential for triangulation is rife. Three means exclusion, secrets, pairs and pains. Like the...
Feb 17, 20243 min read


Inhale Peace - What is My Therapy Approach
Many therapists have "branded" their practices: Winding Road, Finding Yourself, Path to Fulfillment, Thoughtful Change, etc. etc. Nice, calm and creative names. They have a blog and a podcast. They pitch themselves on Youtube. What does it all mean? To be honest, I'm not sure. I just finished reading "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone" and it was good. Better than I expected in this hallowed Irvin Yalom corner of the world where therapy becomes the drama for a book, filled w
Aug 12, 20203 min read
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